What is in the bucket that makes them go in it with out attacking you or it?

You got more balls than me.

I'd have 2-3 bee suits on and 200 gallons of lorsban mixed up in a pto driven pump, and or a flame thrower. The home owner may not appreciate the flame thrower approach!

Some one was telling me the queen will control/teach the bees to be mean or not? I dont know how that would work or if that is BS. But a guy I know says he is getting rid of his queen and getting a new one due to this?